Monday, November 9, 2009

hbcu experience...

not ashamed to say it but i will be a 5th year senior that will be graduating from alabama a&m university may 14th, 2010. i have come to experience a few things and its one thats not sitting well with me...
in my opinion, hbcu's focuses too much greek organizations. 

***BEFORE I REALLY START SHARING MY OPINION...I HAVE FAMILY AND FRIENDS IN EACH AND EVERY GREEK ORGANIZATION...I HAVE RESPECT/LOVE FOR THEM ALL AND I MEAN NO HARM OR DISRESPECT WHEN I SHARE THIS***

a few of my friends are in greek organizations and we were having a conversation, when it hit me...when on a hbcu campus...
  • its certain words or phrases you might not be able to say that you normally use in everyday conversation or in a joke because an organization has deemed it there's. 
  • you cant wear certain colors to an event or sometimes period or they/people will think that you want to be in that certain organization with those colors.
  • you cant really listen to certain songs cause they are so called just for that organization when they stroll. 
  • you may not be able to dance a certain way or people will think that you are doing apart of someone's stroll.

i thought to myself...that sucks. you basically have to walk on ice or people will jump down your throat. ***AGAIN NO DISRESPECT*** but damn can i live??? ive come to gripes that there are bigger things in the world then this but when you are in the atmosphere of a hbcu, they make it seem like either you're greek or just a regular ass person. 

i will say, MAYBE its something that i just dont see cause im not in one...all im focused on is graduating, making my family happy and building my own empire. this petty stuff that surrounds colleges period is childish and very immature. 

this is just my opinion...everybody has one.  

:::fred the cool

2 Comments:

At November 11, 2009 at 10:26 AM , Anonymous Chyna Doll Dowdy said...

OMG FRED YOU DID IT AGAIN!
I love love love your blog about the greek orgs at hbcu
of coure with me attending one myself, where alot of them were started at, I know exactly how you feel!
it's like when people get those letters, they feel like they are...
Idk what word I am even looking for
but being here at the Mecca, they def take that ish to a whoooolllleee nother level
it's like ok, I do want to do this
but Im not about to change my whole understanding of who I am and walk on ice for yooooouuuu
or will I? ;)
we will see by the end of this year
but I def and totally agree with that blog!
I was just thinking talking about that with a friend the other day
but of course I couldnt speak on it for numerous reasons
but Im glad someone did!
Kudos to you for wonderful blog, yet again!

 
At November 11, 2009 at 3:52 PM , Anonymous Fred The UnCooL said...

thank you for comments CD...lol...i really appreciate you reading but yea, it speaks for itself. those are my feelings whether im interested or not. again i really appreciate you reading.

peace and love to you.

 

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